Panto Etiquette
The Unofficial Guide to Surviving Your Christmas Pantomime
Going to a Christmas pantomime for the first time? Don’t worry, unlike most theatre shows, pantomime comes with its own set of rules. Or perhaps more accurately, its own set of traditions.
The good news is that panto audiences are encouraged to have fun, join in and make a bit of noise. In fact, sitting quietly through the whole show might be the most unusual thing you could do!
If you’re wondering what’s acceptable at a pantomime, here’s our light-hearted guide to panto etiquette.
Is Shouting Allowed?
Absolutely. In fact, it’s expected. One of the most famous pantomime traditions is audience participation. Throughout the show, performers will encourage the audience to get involved by shouting, cheering and singing along.
You’ll often hear:
- “He’s behind you!”
- “Oh no he isn’t!”
- “Oh yes it is!”
The louder the audience, the better.
If you’ve never been before, don’t worry about getting it wrong. You’ll quickly pick up the cues from everyone around you.
Want to know why audiences shout at certain characters? Take a look at our guide to panto characters and traditions.
Can Kids Stand Up During the Show?
Generally, yes. Pantomime is designed with children in mind, and theatres understand that younger audience members won’t sit perfectly still for two hours.
You’ll often see children:
- Standing up during songs
- Dancing in their seats
- Waving at characters
- Joining in with audience participation
Of course, it’s always worth being mindful of people sitting behind you, but most families expect a little excitement at a Christmas panto.
For younger children attending for the first time, this relaxed atmosphere is one of the reasons pantomime is such a great introduction to theatre.
Are Photos Allowed?
This is where things get a little more traditional. In most theatres, photography and video recording are not permitted during the performance.
This helps:
- Avoid distracting performers
- Prevent disruption to other audience members
- Protect copyright and production rights
Many venues are happy for photos to be taken:
- Before the show starts
- During the interval
- At designated photo opportunities
Always check the theatre’s policy before your visit. And yes, that selfie with the giant panto programme is definitely encouraged.
Should You Dress Up for the Panto?
You certainly can. Unlike formal theatre events, there is no strict dress code for a Christmas pantomime.
Most people attend in:
- Casual clothes
- Christmas jumpers
- Festive outfits
- Fancy dress inspired by the show
Children especially love dressing up as:
- Princesses
- Fairies
- Pirates
- Princes and princesses
- Their favourite panto characters
If your child wants to arrive dressed as Cinderella or Aladdin, they’ll be in good company.
Is It OK to Bring Snacks?
Most theatres allow refreshments purchased on-site, although policies vary by venue.
Panto intervals are famously busy, so if you’re attending with young children it can be helpful to:
- Arrive early
- Pre-order interval drinks where available
- Check the venue’s food policy in advance
A little preparation can make the whole experience much smoother.
What If My Child Gets Restless?
Don’t panic. The beauty of pantomime is that it’s designed for families.
Children laugh, talk, point at characters and occasionally lose concentration. Theatre staff see this every day during the festive season.
If you’re concerned about attending with younger children, our guide on what to expect at your first pantomime covers everything from noise levels to running times.
The Most Important Rule of Panto Etiquette
Have fun. Pantomime isn’t about sitting quietly and politely applauding at the end.
It’s about:
- Laughing loudly
- Booing the villain
- Cheering the hero
- Singing along
- Creating family memories
The audience is part of the show, and that’s what makes pantomime so special. So whether you’re a seasoned panto fan or planning your very first visit, don’t be afraid to join in.
After all…Oh yes you should! 🎭✨
Planning Your Christmas Panto Visit?
If you’re still deciding which show is right for your family, take a look at our guide to the best pantomimes for different age groups.
And if you’re attending for the first time, don’t miss our helpful guide on what to expect at the panto before you book your tickets.